" I AM is Now"

" I AM " is NOW (www.nanettevictoria.com)
What happened in the past is no longer here. What is about to happen is not here either. All we actually have is the nowness of this moment. God is a now God, not a yesterday God, or a tomorrow God. The greatest gift we can offer someone is giving them our full presence here and now. " I AM " is " Now ".
A Course in Miracles (workbook 4 students)
Lesson 314 (2nd paragraph)
I seek a future different from the past.

Father, we were mistaken in the past, and choose to use the present to be free. Now do we leave the future in Your Hands, leaving behind our past mistakes, and sure that You will keep Your present promises, and guide the future in their holy light.

Love with passion
Dance in the light
Nanette
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Awake! (www.nanettevictoria.com)

In this world we appear to have two choices, love, or fear. Yet one is true, one is a mere illusion. Choose love and awake, choose fear and remain asleep.

1 John 4:7  Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.

A Course in Miracles

Workbook Lesson 223 

God is my life. I have no life but His

I was mistaken when I thought I lived apart from God, a separate entity that moved in isolation, unattached, and housed within a body. Now I know my life is God's, I have no other home, and I do not exist apart from Him. He has no Thoughts that are not part of me, and I have none but those which are of Him.

Our Father, let us see the face of Christ instead of our mistakes. For we who are Your holy Son are sinless. We would look upon our sinlessness, for guilt proclaims that we are not Your Son. And we would not forget You longer. We are lonely here, and long for Heaven, where we are at home. Today we would return. Our Name is Yours, and we acknowledge that we are Your Son. 

Love with passion

Dance in the light

Nanette

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Healing from being addicted in relationships-www.nanettevictoria.com

There is a season for everything in our lives. We will have all different types of relationships from professional to personal, and each of them shall have there own season. A well adjusted mature Healthy mind accepts when a relationship may come to an end and can gently release the person without any strife. However the addict mind suffers from a whole other dis-ease, and one in which is based in self centered fear. This is one in which the person holds in there mind a constant obsession of the person leaving the relationship and keeps them as a hostage (a prisoner within the mind). The addicted one may feel the uncontrollable desire to keep contacting that person, or even worse get addicted to social media in order to see what the other person is doing. Social media can be a feeding frenzy for the ego. This becomes a Spiritual violation of boundaries to the other person who has moved on from the relationship. The ego dynamics of addiction, is the person always thinks everything is about them and looses sight of the other people they are affecting. We can see this ego dynamic occur all around us, and it is indeed the same addicted process as being addicted to alcohol, or drugs, of another insane substitute.  The Good News is there is a solution and a way out of this awful prison. The first step is the admission that there is a problem, without the honesty of seeing there is something wrong healing will be impossible. There are many paths one can use to heal from addictions, however the only one I have known to actually work is a 12 step process (it is flawless) . I share this information today because many may suffer from addictions (obsessive compulsive disorders) of many kinds. There can be total and complete relief, if there is total and complete honesty and taking responsibility for the dis-ease. We can be free from the bondage of self. God Wills us to have a happy healthy mind, so we can be of  greater service. 

The Twelve Steps 

1. We admitted we were powerless over "name the addiction" - that our lives had become unmanageable.

2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Choose freedom

Love with passion

Nanette

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Lord take the wheel

Lord take the wheel
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Dear Lord, please take the wheel, for our sense of direction knows not the way. Your way is the way, and now the journey is effortless for you will direct every step. To rest in God we become the best in God.
A Course in Miracles
Lesson 324
I merely follow, for I would not lead.
Father, You are the One Who gave the plan for my salvation to me. You have set the way I am to go, the role to take, and every step in my appointed path. I cannot lose the way. I can but choose to wander off a while, and then return. Your loving Voice will always call me back, and guide my feet aright. My brothers all can follow in the way I lead them. Yet I merely follow in the way to You, as You direct me and would have me go.
So let us follow One Who knows the way. We need not tarry, and we cannot stray except an instant from His loving Hand. We walk together, for we follow Him. And it is He Who makes the ending sure, and guarantees a safe returning home.

Love with passion
Dance in the light
Nanette
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732-775-0733

The way of Spirit

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The way is simple, the way is effortless, the way is get out of the way. Our thinking mind is illusion, and thank God for that. The Spirit of God leads the way, and when we fully concede to our inner most self this is true, the Holy instant of release is the result. Only God's plan will work.

Lesson 317
I follow in the way appointed me.
I have a special place to fill; a role for me alone. Salvation waits until I take this part as what I choose to do. Until I make this choice, I am the slave of time and human destiny. But when I willingly and gladly go the way my Father's plan appointed me to go, then will I recognize salvation is already here, already given all my brothers and already mine as well.
Father, Your way is what I choose today. Where it would lead me do I choose to go; what it would have me do I choose to do. Your way is certain, and the end secure. The memory of You awaits me there. And all my sorrows end in Your embrace, which You have promised to Your Son, who thought mistakenly that he had wandered from the sure protection of Your loving Arms.

Love with passion
Dance in the light
Nanette

The joy of letting go

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 Letting go of the concept of special relationships is the key to Spiritual experience. As soon as we attempt to have fantasies that we would be better some how if only we had the right man, or woman as a partner, things might be easier. This indeed is far from truth. What God ordains, God up holds. Holy Relationships are built by God, from God, and not our ego illusions that conger and manipulate what we think we need and want. When we have Spiritual discernment we can see the true from the false. Holy connections are built in the realm of Spirit and manifest in the world by God's Grace, surely nothing we do, accept may be stay out of the way. All life remains in Spirit. All focus must remain in Spiritual truth.

Isaiah 26:3Amplified Bible (AMP)- You will guard him and keep him in perfect and constant peace whose mind [both its inclination and its character] is stayed on You, because he commits himself to You, leans on You, and hopes confidently in You.

 

The Bridge to the Real World

The search for the special relationship is the sign that you equate yourself with the ego and not with God. For the special relationship has value only to the ego. To the ego, unless a relationship has special value it has no meaning, for it perceives all love as special. Yet this cannot be natural, for it is unlike the relationship of God and His Son, and all relationships that are unlike this one must be unnatural. For God created love as He would have it be, and gave it as it is. Love has no meaning except as its Creator defined it by His Will. It is impossible to define it otherwise and understand it.

Love is freedom. To look for it by placing yourself in bondage is to separate yourself from it. For the Love of God, no longer seek for union in separation, nor for freedom in bondage! As you release, so will you be released. Forget this not, or Love will be unable to find you and comfort you.

 

Transform through Spiritual Coaching
Spiritual growth and development is transforming from the inside out. Our magnificent light is meant to shine. Through Spiritual Coaching we reach our potential and focus on the solutions, not the problem. We learn HOW to break free of limiting beliefs Now! We are meant to live as God would have us be, happy, joyous and free.

Love with passion

Dance in the light

Nanette

www.nanettevictoria.com

732-775-0733

Courage to change now

Courage to change now
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God is everything now and always. There is but one problem and one solution, and until we can be 100% honest and accountable for our mistakes, we will remain bound by the ego's dream. Our mistakes cannot be undone until we admit our powerlessness over the human condition (with out guilt, we simple look and not judge our part, but only desire correction). As we get humble and ask for correction the blocks are dissolved. We cannot just cover up things and say it is ok and forgotten. We will have to take certain steps (actions). Take ownership of what the interference is (identify the block-addictions, anger, fear-etc, all of it is a result of self centered fears, and not relying in God). As God's light magnifies in us, the dark imaginings will in fact surface, stop look directly into the beast, which is a puny powerless illusion (ego dreams). When we can see our self centered ego dreams and confess it, we can be free, for we have brought the dark imaginings to the LIGHT!

Ephesians 2:2-3-4 Amplified Bible (AMP)

2 And you [He made alive], when you were dead (slain) by [your] trespasses and sins
2 In which at one time you walked [habitually]. You were following the course and fashion of this world [were under the sway of the tendency of this present age], following the prince of the power of the air. [You were obedient to and under the control of] the [demon] spirit that still constantly works in the sons of disobedience [the careless, the rebellious, and the unbelieving, who go against the purposes of God].
3 Among these we as well as you once lived and conducted ourselves in the passions of our flesh [our behavior governed by our corrupt and sensual nature], obeying the impulses of the flesh and the thoughts of the mind [our cravings dictated by our senses and our dark imaginings].We were then by nature children of [God’s] wrath and heirs of [His] indignation, like the rest of mankind.
4 But God—so rich is He in His mercy! Because of and in order to satisfy the great and wonderful and intense love with which He loved us,

Lesson 298
I love You, Father, and I love Your Son.
My gratitude permits my love to be accepted without fear. And thus am I restored to my reality at last. All that intruded on my holy sight forgiveness takes away. And I draw near the end of senseless journeys, mad careers and artificial values. I accept instead what God establishes as mine, sure that in that alone I will be saved; sure that I go through fear to meet my Love.
Father, I come to You today, because I would not follow any way but Yours. You are beside me. Certain is Your way. And I am grateful for Your holy gifts of certain sanctuary, and escape from everything that would obscure my love for God my Father and His holy Son.

Love with passion
Dance in the light

Nanette
www.nanettevictoria.com
732-775-0733