Setting proper boundaries is a healthy spiritual practice. We must keep it really simple, when we are led by the Spirit to say yes we say yes, and when we are led by the Spirit to say no, we say no, but seek not to explain why the no is a no. Truth needs no defense. We are meant to simply be authentic without explaining ourselves away. Ask and pray in all things and truth will always reveal it Self!
34 But I tell you, Do not bind yourselves by an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is the throne of God;
35 Or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King.
36 And do not swear by your head, for you are not able to make a single hair white or black.
37 Let your Yes be simply Yes, and your No be simply No; anything more than that comes from the evil one.
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